Ok, at the moment, AOL is accepting our mail again without delay. I have not heard anything from them so I have no idea if it has anything to do with my request to be added to their whitelist program thingy.
But check this out:
http://slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=06/02/03/033202
It sounds like in the future, they want to start charging people to be on their whitelist. I can assure all of you that we will not be paying AOL a dime in order to send email to AOL addresses.