Guys, i know that when our love one passed away it seems like a part of us die along but we should let him/her go freely (just keep the memories to sustain us in this life) because someday we will met him/her again. Don't try to hold him/her up.
The best way of cremate is let the ash flow with the winds wherever he/her would love to roam. We keep a headstone because we want to go there to share some moments with the deads.
Wearing a piece of him/her (ash) on you is no good. You still want his/her spirit around you. Let him/her go. Cherish the happy times you had with him/her.
Peace.
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